Sunday, 17 August 2014
Everyone has a professional, and a personal life. Some may focus more on one than the other, some learn to combine both together, and some choose to step into something and adapt to any changes that come out of it. Weather it is for personal, or professional reasons, it is your choice. You must be ready and accept the consequences that follow from that choice. If you want to focus more on your personal life, such as your partner, you must be ready to adapt, and do whatever is needed to have it. If you care about becoming what you wish to become professionally, then you must learn to let go of those that slow you down. There is not one path in this world, those who say there is only one way are blind to the other paths. They may be blind based on their moments in life, what they faces and what they believe to be real. In the end, it's your life, make it work your way, and be ready to handle all that comes out of it.
Moments, people, and things in our lives can change people in so many ways. Being around someone can turn a part of you into them, meaning they rub off on you and you start to lose who you once were, and may not even realize it. Some people lose sight on what they are or who they are because of certain things in their life. They may be too busy to really think about it, they may not even care, or lost the reason to care about themselves. I have seen people, and also been with people like that, who I was close with, then in time, things changed. You have to have time to truly know yourself, take time to think, to know if who you are now is really what or who you want to be. You must look in yourself and see your true self and accept your true self, never try to be something your not or it will cause a ton of stress and pressure in the future. You may start losing things, and people and wonder why they left you, was it cause they don't care, or is it because you have changed without seeing it. Never let anything or anyone change who you are, don't let others try to change you. Always know, understand, accept, and be yourself.