Saturday, 31 May 2014

Love and Relationships Are 2 Different Things

You hear stories about couples who love each other so much, who love each other so much, and that nothing can ever go wrong because they love everything about each other and can not get enough of each other, but then just a few years later, you hear that they have had a couple of fights, and have broke up. How can that happen? 

Some guys say that girls have so many problems, that they are not loyal anymore, some girls say that guys are just greedy, wanting just one thing and not caring about their feelings anymore. Its true, sadly, that we live with these type of people in the world, however, not every guy, or girl is like that. Some situations happen that causes one to rethink about their partner, mostly the main issue that causes all these problems is all about one word, COMMUNICATION! 

To make a relationship work, both partners must take their time to understand the needs and wants from others, what each other needs in the relationship in order to make the relationship last long. Once you know and also understand about the needs of each other, knowing and understanding what and why they need it, you must take the time to think of if it is something that you can give. Think of these 3 things when they tell you what they need: is it something that will harm you? is it something that you can do ( and maybe even love to do), and is it something that you can live with ( that you can do it for life with no worries ). Make sure you are not stepping into a relationship where you know you will never be able to live with for the rest of your life.

Knowing, Understanding, and Accepting the needs of each other's needs are the keys to a long lasting relationship. You may love each other so much and may really want more for each other, but are you ready to handle the needs of your partner? 

1 comment:

  1. WOW!! I love your blog.. It is something different and I know that a lot of people out there can relate to this. You are correct that LOVE is not enough but there are things that should be done to make it more meaningful. Prove it not just with words but by showing it through actions..

    I love your blogs.. Hoping to read some more. You really touch lives. ;)