Tuesday, 18 March 2014

Never Give In!

There are times where people will always try to make you see things their way, to make you do something you do not want to do, to manipulate you into breaking promises, or to do something you would never do. Some people can be really controlling, wanting things their way, wanting to make things go the way they see it, without understanding or thinking how it makes someone else feel. Some people may never learn how they are acting, what they are doing to others, never care that people are free to choose their path in life, as long as they get what they want, even if it means changing someone else's life choice just to feel as though they have accomplished something, or feel as though they are guiding others on the " right path". Sure, sometimes depending on the situation it would be acceptable, such as someone committing suicide and someone stopping someone from that, of course that would be a good thing to do, but to control, to abuse others for things that are not harmful in any way, to themselves or to others, that is never right. People are free to choose their own paths in life, free to be who they want, what they want, to be themselves, no one deserves to be disrespected, hated, abused, controlled in a way that would make one feel as though they have way too much limitations in their own life. Never let others get you down to the point that you have to give up on your dreams, your desires, never let anything control you and who you are. Everyone is free to be themselves, when that is taken away from them, they loose sight on what matters the most to them, they loose who they are, they loose their mind, their feelings, they give everything up because of the feeling, the thought that they are limited to only what is told to them by those who are controlling them. They stop caring, stop understanding, and loose that peaceful side of themselves, and start to treat others bad without seeing it. If you ever feel that you are being controlled, being abused, being forced to choose your own path, your future, to break a part of yourself, to hurt those who you care about, if you ever feel that you are loosing yourself, you need to think of what is more important, what really matters, yourself. Understand that freedom comes first, feeling free to choose, free to be yourself, free to live your life comes before anything, you may want that perfect person, that perfect job, that perfect something or somebody, but would you really sacrifice your free will, your freedom, your body, your health for it? NEVER GIVE IN TO ABUSE! NEVER GIVE UP, NEVER BE CONTROLLED! NEVER GIVE IN!

Monday, 17 March 2014

Everyone Can Overcome! ... Everyone Is Free!

Some people suffer in life, isolation, depression, abused, buried, and much, much more. Everyone goes through some dark, evil times where they will feel as though they are alone. However, out of that dark, depression period, no matter how long, comes hope, courage, the ability to overcome, the ability to shine, the ability to come out and bring about change in one way or another. Some may feel buried under so much pain that they lose sight on what is right in front of them, knowing that there are signs of hope, knowing that they have a voice and can spread it as far as their heart desires, but not being able to take that step because of fright, cause of the thoughts they have built up from their past, because of fear. Fear is the curse that we all face in life, in one way or another. We come in this world blind, def, not clear of whats around us, we come into this world in fear, and come out of this world with a story that will be remembered, other by some or by many. How do you want your story to be? What picture do you want people to remember you by? 

People do things other from how they feel or how they think. The choices in life that one chooses is other from loyalty, ambition, or honor. Some people may never understand your choice because they are fixed in their own, they have been pushed to follow their path caused by their moments in life, and thus not able to understand your way of life, your way of thinking or feeling. Life is full of fear, but its how we choose to overcome that fear, how we choose to rise above that fear that defines us, other by choosing to stay loyal to what we already has, to press forward and to realize your hopes and dreams with absolute certainty, without worrying about boundaries, without worries about the outcomes of your actions or your words, or to honor those who have come before and those who are living now, to live for the people, not for one's self or a small group of people, but for everyone. These are the choices that we all end up choosing at the very end, what our life is about, what we leave behind, a story of loyalty, ambition, or honor. What will you choose at the end, what matters the most to you, your dreams and desires, the desires of others, or the love you share with those closest to you? WHAT WILL YOU BECOME? 

Wednesday, 12 March 2014

Your My Light ( poem )

There is nothing that shines brighter

There is no one that burns hotter

You give so much, more than I ever have

You light up my life, make me feel so alive 

With you, I don't need anything

Because, you are my everything

Always will be yours, you will always have me

Forever together, Forever will be

You are my life, your all I need

Dream about you ever night, every time I fall asleep

The Dark And Light Side Of Life

Darkness, pain, hurt, depression, isolation, loss, horror, betrayed, the signs of the dark side of life. Darkness is all around us, wherever we look, in our own lives and in everyone else, we may not see it but its there. However, even the dark has a silver lining, a light that you may not be able to see cause you are so concerned with the darkness around you, or you can be so happy about life, that you do not notice the dark side of things or choose to ignore it completely. Every action has a good and bad side to them. If you are so happy and not notice what your actions is doing, you may be causing more harm than good for others, or you can be so down about life, so concerned about whats happening, that you lose sight on all the good around you that you push them away.

Take the time to understand how others are feeling, understand how your actions, your words are affecting others. Every little thing you do or say may have a bigger impact on someone more than you ever thought. Understand that everyone feels differently about things. Take time to think about others before you do something or say something.

Monday, 10 March 2014

Do You Want To Be " Change "

First off, I know it has been some time since I posted an article lately, pretty long time actually, but will be getting back on my feet, well chair, and start to post things again.

I have been thinking about the 2 years that I spent on creating change for schools in my area, getting connected to the school board here, pushing and pressing forward with my passion and dedication towards what I strongly believe needs to change and to become better, and that was for a much more positive and a better anti bullying prevention plan. I have helped a ton of people over the years with issues of bullying, depression, abuse, and more all related to bullying. I always strongly believed that if you never give up on something that you are fully passionate about, something would come out of it, and in 2 years, I had my opportunity to create that change that I have always dreamed of, to help people in my area and to really make a big positive change. However, something has come up in my life that I had to decide one or the other, and I would like to be clear, it was not cause of money, greed, or anything to do with that, rather it had something to do with my feelings for someone that made me choose, but my desire to help people has and will never change.

Never believe that your efforts are pointless. Never feel like if you do something people will laugh, people may judge, but there will always be that one person in the group who will truly understand. I learned that when I made various speeches during my little push for change, have opened people's eyes, big or little, I remember a kid was sitting in the front row of one of my very first speeches I made, I was so nervous being the first time after a while doing a speech to so many. It was so hard that I sometimes would stumble and even froze up a little during it, but i focused and kept my mind on it, had a mind set to " bring it ", and I did. So much so that that kid, and other people as well, would start to mention me in their speeches, in their questions, in anything they wanted to tell the board, even a few people said that they had no plans of saying something, but seeing me and hearing what I said changed that. You have no idea how it feels having people come up to you for the first time and admire what you have done and said until you have lived it yourself.

Everyone has what it takes to create change, some may not have the time, some may not know how, but everyone has it in them to make things better, to create change. Never give up hope, and never think that your efforts were all for nothing. Every little thing you do, will mean so much to others, so go out there and give all you got and bring it, give everything you got, and in time, others will follow your example. NEVER GIVE UP HOPE!